WHAT'S THE BEST MONTH TO GET MARRIED? FINDING THE PERFECT WEDDING DATE FOR YOU
- 5 days ago
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One of the first questions almost every newly engaged couple asks is, "What's the best month to get married?"
The truth? There isn't one.
The best wedding month to get married isn't based on what's popular, it's about how you want your wedding day to feel.
At Abernethy Center, we've celebrated weddings in every season, and each one creates its own kind of magic. Here's what each season feels like.
SPRING: FRESH, ROMANTIC & FULL OF NEW BEGINNINGS
Spring weddings feel hopeful. The gardens are waking up after winter, flowers are beginning to bloom, and everything feels fresh and full of possibility. It's the perfect season for couples who love soft colors, lush greenery, and the symbolism of starting a new chapter together.
Of course, this is Oregon, so spring weather can be a little unpredictable. That's why we always have a thoughtful rain backup plan in place. If Mother Nature decides to surprise us, we'll seamlessly adjust so you can simply enjoy every moment of your day.
SUMMER: JOYFUL, RELAXED & FULL OF CELEBRATION
Summer weddings feel like pure celebration. The gardens are in full bloom, the evenings stretch long into golden hour, and there's something magical about watching your favorite people gather outdoors with nowhere else to be.
From a sun-soaked ceremony to cocktails in the gardens and a reception that ends beneath glowing string lights, summer creates the kind of wedding day that feels relaxed, joyful, and full of life.
It's no surprise that summer is one of our most requested seasons, which means those dates tend to book quickly. If you've always envisioned an outdoor wedding, it's worth planning ahead. Prefer to celebrate indoors? Our Chapel, Veiled Garden, and Grand Ballroom are fully climate-controlled with air conditioning, giving you all the beauty of summer with the comfort your guests will appreciate.
FALL: COZY, ELEGANT & TIMELESS
If your dream wedding includes warm candlelight, rich colors, and crisp autumn evenings, fall might be your perfect season.
There's something effortlessly romantic about this time of year. The changing leaves, comfortable temperatures, and golden light create a cozy atmosphere that never goes out of style. It's no wonder September and October are some of our most requested wedding months.
WINTER: INTIMATE, WARM & INCREDIBLY ROMANTIC
Winter has a way of inviting us to slow down. It's a season for being present with the people we love most, making it the perfect backdrop for an intimate wedding celebration.
Imagine candlelit tables, rich color-drenched florals, cozy conversations with family and friends, a hot cocoa bar (or a Hot Toddy if that's more your style). Our heated Chapel and Grand Ballroom create a warm, inviting atmosphere that feels elegant, intimate, and effortlessly romantic.
As an added bonus, winter weddings often come with more budget-friendly venue pricing. That means you can invest those savings into the things that matter most to you, whether that's upgrading your florals, hiring your dream photographer, or finally taking that tropical honeymoon you've been dreaming about!
THE BEST WEDDING DATE IS THE ONE THAT FEELS LIKE YOU
When choosing your wedding date, don't just think about the weather. Think about the memories you want to create.
Do you imagine guests wandering through blooming gardens? Laughing together during a warm summer sunset? Wrapping up in blankets on a crisp fall evening? Or gathering around candlelight for a cozy winter celebration?
The best month to get married is simply the one that feels most like your love story.
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At Abernethy Center, we're fortunate to celebrate every season, and no matter when you choose to say "I do," we're here to help make your wedding feel beautifully, unmistakably yours.
Looking for more wedding inspiration? Schedule a tour and discover why Abernethy Center is one of Oregon's most beloved all-inclusive wedding venues.
Discover why so many couples choose Abernethy Center as their preferred Portland-area wedding venue and let our experienced team help bring your wedding vision to life.
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